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Well, I went to Tunisia in Aug to see my rat in real life

Tinker-lulu

Major Ratslayer
A good amount of us are born with the huge nose bump, but not all of us. Actually mine is small and I’ve seen a lot of Tunisian women with small nose, it’s like no in between, it’s either one way or the other…. Tbh if my nose had a huge bridge I still could not saw it down… just the thought scares me.
A very painful procedure and the face is left very swelling for weeks.

My advice is be happy with who you’re, it’s a pride to resemble your ancestors,
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
@Jennie

I missed most of this thread as I had family commitments to deal with.

I am sorry you felt attacked, emotions can get very heated here due to the nature of the forum and the hurt, humiliation, abuse they received from rats not to mention the amount of money lost leaving some members penniless, some have been raped, held prisoner and beaten - please realise the advise given always comes from the heart as nobody here wants another person going through the torture of having a love rat!

I hope you are okay and have had time to digest some of the information on here to help you make a calculated decision - one piece of advise left to say is never think you are playing a love rat, they are masters in their craft and can keep their masks on for years......as we say here 'you can't kid a kidder' you will always lose.

MH x
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
@Sabrina I step in here just to explain that @Aisha1 is here to help us all any confusion on an answer there are polite ways to just ask her. We are here to help eachother and women who come searching for answers

Yvonne xxx
Aisha knows the costs of things oh and she knows how her friends they have over are talking to their women she just flip flops about some of her replies 1. I guess when one of us older women have sex with a young rat he’sa bad Muslim but one instance on here there was a young couple that met in turkey surely they got intimate so for them she said “oh it’s 2021” there are feelings WTH she mean by that? So younger couple it’s ok the Muslim is not bad? Yvonne before you take sides you need to remember on here we are here for support and to rant about the rats that have tried to destroy our lives or succeeded. Which she knows nothing about. She has a good Tunisian man we didn’t! The only reason I came on here was to get this off my chest and I saw in a news feed where you were lashing out at wicked witch .about the same bs .I might log in another time but some times the drama with her and you not really worth it. I miss MH007 And I miss the ladies, but nah you two not worth the headache ! I don’t take too well at someone telling me how to talk I speak my mind! ……by the way for the ladies who really care I am staying strong against my rat I will never respond to him!
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Aisha knows the costs of things oh and she knows how her friends they have over are talking to their women she just flip flops about some of her replies 1. I guess when one of us older women have sex with a young rat he’sa bad Muslim but one instance on here there was a young couple that met in turkey surely they got intimate so for them she said “oh it’s 2021” there are feelings WTH she mean by that? So younger couple it’s ok the Muslim is not bad? Yvonne before you take sides you need to remember on here we are here for support and to rant about the rats that have tried to destroy our lives or succeeded. Which she knows nothing about. She has a good Tunisian man we didn’t! The only reason I came on here was to get this off my chest and I saw in a news feed where you were lashing out at wicked witch .about the same bs .I might log in another time but some times the drama with her and you not really worth it. I miss MH007 And I miss the ladies, but nah you two not worth the headache ! I don’t take too well at someone telling me how to talk I speak my mind! ……by the way for the ladies who really care I am staying strong against my rat I will never respond to him!
2. Is healthcare free there or not? A lot of us saw on here where you can go and get help for free or next to nothing! So I know I was taken for a lot of money for medical! This is where it started! Don’t bother trying to tell me I was rude or to speak nicely because I’m being as nice as I can considering the source and the circumstances. Don’t bother replying either
 
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Aisha1

Major Ratslayer
Aisha knows the costs of things oh and she knows how her friends they have over are talking to their women she just flip flops about some of her replies 1. I guess when one of us older women have sex with a young rat he’sa bad Muslim but one instance on here there was a young couple that met in turkey surely they got intimate so for them she said “oh it’s 2021” there are feelings WTH she mean by that? So younger couple it’s ok the Muslim is not bad? Yvonne before you take sides you need to remember on here we are here for support and to rant about the rats that have tried to destroy our lives or succeeded. Which she knows nothing about. She has a good Tunisian man we didn’t! The only reason I came on here was to get this off my chest and I saw in a news feed where you were lashing out at wicked witch .about the same bs .I might log in another time but some times the drama with her and you not really worth it. I miss MH007 And I miss the ladies, but nah you two not worth the headache ! I don’t take too well at someone telling me how to talk I speak my mind! ……by the way for the ladies who really care I am staying strong against my rat I will never respond to him!
@Sabrina I will exit the forum if you will stay, because you are completely right, the forum is more for support and ranting, I’m not part of it and I don’t belong here. Im Muslim, Arab and married to a Tunisian, soon mother to Tunisian Lebanese Muslim boy, so that’s my position. I apologize if I don’t agree and differ in my opinion on certain views and topics, especially when all Tunisians and often Muslims are labeled as liars, scammers… just negative words in general…. Nothing to do with rats. I have different perspective to a lot of the topics discussed…. I’m sorry I made you uncomfortable or the drama I brought was stressful for you, truly wasn’t my intentions …. I see where you are coming from by disliking me. However I don’t feel I flip flopped, yes we have standards in my religion, as most so… but I have to accept what people do in 2021, I would love to say in a perfect world all Muslim men respected women, courted them and did everything By the book, but it’s just not like that. I practice my religion the best way I know how, I chose to marry a man that followed our rules and beliefs, and I try to advise women asking about decent men the truth about how things should be…. I can’t judge a man and a woman that does things I don’t approve of not following our beliefs, but I can’t be naive to think it doesn’t happen with men that actually care about a woman…. Muslims are not perfect, we sin, but it doesn’t make us scammers or terrible people. As far as knowing prices, giving culture or religious advice.. I’m sure someone will advise for future. I sympathize with all the women here on the forum and I’m so sorry these rats took advantage and made you feel special. Best of luck and may Allah give good healthy feelings to all.
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
@Sabrina I will exit the forum if you will stay, because you are completely right, the forum is more for support and ranting, I’m not part of it and I don’t belong here. Im Muslim, Arab and married to a Tunisian, soon mother to Tunisian Lebanese Muslim boy, so that’s my position. I apologize if I don’t agree and differ in my opinion on certain views and topics, especially when all Tunisians and often Muslims are labeled as liars, scammers… just negative words in general…. Nothing to do with rats. I have different perspective to a lot of the topics discussed…. I’m sorry I made you uncomfortable or the drama I brought was stressful for you, truly wasn’t my intentions …. I see where you are coming from by disliking me. However I don’t feel I flip flopped, yes we have standards in my religion, as most so… but I have to accept what people do in 2021, I would love to say in a perfect world all Muslim men respected women, courted them and did everything By the book, but it’s just not like that. I practice my religion the best way I know how, I chose to marry a man that followed our rules and beliefs, and I try to advise women asking about decent men the truth about how things should be…. I can’t judge a man and a woman that does things I don’t approve of not following our beliefs, but I can’t be naive to think it doesn’t happen with men that actually care about a woman…. Muslims are not perfect, we sin, but it doesn’t make us scammers or terrible people. As far as knowing prices, giving culture or religious advice.. I’m sure someone will advise for future. I sympathize with all the women here on the forum and I’m so sorry these rats took advantage and made you feel special. Best of luck and may Allah give good healthy feelings to all.
Aisha I really appreciate you taking the time to read, understand where I’m coming from and writing back! You do not need to leave, just let us rant and call names and know that every name is not directed at any race or religion just specifically to our rats whether they be Tunisian or Moroccan or even American! Yes we do look for the truth because I know I was lied to about the cost of everything and with us not knowing we sent what we thought was necessary! I was stupid, naive and all of the above, but I’m over it I have forgiven him for my sake! So all is well I’m glad we could talk this out without a mediator! Much happiness and good health to you, your other half and the little person you are growing inside of you a little of both of you and your husband . Only in a perfect world we would be sinless all of us.
 

Yvonne

Moderator
Staff member
Aisha knows the costs of things oh and she knows how her friends they have over are talking to their women she just flip flops about some of her replies 1. I guess when one of us older women have sex with a young rat he’sa bad Muslim but one instance on here there was a young couple that met in turkey surely they got intimate so for them she said “oh it’s 2021” there are feelings WTH she mean by that? So younger couple it’s ok the Muslim is not bad? Yvonne before you take sides you need to remember on here we are here for support and to rant about the rats that have tried to destroy our lives or succeeded. Which she knows nothing about. She has a good Tunisian man we didn’t! The only reason I came on here was to get this off my chest and I saw in a news feed where you were lashing out at wicked witch .about the same bs .I might log in another time but some times the drama with her and you not really worth it. I miss MH007 And I miss the ladies, but nah you two not worth the headache ! I don’t take too well at someone telling me how to talk I speak my mind! ……by the way for the ladies who really care I am staying strong against my rat I will never respond to him!
I'm sorry you feel attacked it was not my intention I was just pointing out the terms and rules from the forum I never ment to

say how you should talk to somebody it just comes across as you attacked Aisha1 with your reply to her. You don't know me and I don't know you but believe me I do care how you feel and I hate to see you leave the forum. Each person has a different approach to a situation we are not all the same and at a forum this large there will be sometimes disagreements.
Yvonne xxx
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
2. Is healthcare free there or not? A lot of us saw on here where you can go and get help for free or next to nothing! So I know I was taken for a lot of money for medical! This is where it started! Don’t bother trying to tell me I was rude or to speak nicely because I’m being as nice as I can considering the source and the circumstances. Don’t bother replying either
I believe that @Aisha1 tried to explain how the healthcare there works - yes healthcare is free but to get more comfortable surroundings and quicker treatment times they have 'clinics' that have to be paid for.....probably much like here where NHS is free for everyone but some people choose to pay for private health and often have insurance to cover the costs of treatments.

I am glad that you both have resolved your issue between you - we can't all get on with everyone all the time, we are all different and are all at different stages but we must be tolerant of each other and if we dislike something we have read then just keep scrolling or report any offensive comments.

You are both important to TLR and both of you have different qualities but with the main purpose to help and support <3

We miss you too Sabrina and I am glad to hear that you are managing to stay strong.

MH x
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I'm sorry you feel attacked it was not my intention I was just pointing out the terms and rules from the forum I never ment to

say how you should talk to somebody it just comes across as you attacked Aisha1 with your reply to her. You don't know me and I don't know you but believe me I do care how you feel and I hate to see you leave the forum. Each person has a different approach to a situation we are not all the same and at a forum this large there will be sometimes disagreements.
Yvonne xxx
Thank you
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I believe that Aisha tried to explain how the healthcare there works - yes healthcare is free but to get more comfortable surroundings and quicker treatment times they have 'clinics' that have to be paid for.....probably much like here where NHS is free for everyone but some people choose to pay for private health and often have insurance to cover the costs of treatments.

I am glad that you both have resolved your issue between you - we can't all get on with everyone all the time, we are all different and are all at different stages but we must be tolerant of each other and if we dislike something we have read then just keep scrolling or report any offensive comments.

You are both important to TLR and both of you have different qualities but with the main purpose to help and support <3

We miss you too Sabrina and I am glad to hear that you are managing to stay strong.

MH x
Thank you, have missed you and hope all is good with family!
 

hippichic

Major Ratslayer
Wait. Is getting a tummy tuck that frowned upon? If so, why?
What is wrong with wanting to feel better about myself.
It’s definitely NOT for the rat. He’s a narcissist, he ain’t staying with me, i’ll be out when the next supply shows up and we all know that but i’ll be able to pick myself up easier if my belly isnt hanging low haha
By the way, I’ve had a breast augmentation & lipo of the flanks so i’ve been doing this stuff for years WAY before the rat so shew with that nonsense.
but..................why are you still with him??dumphim,block him
 

tipme

Major Ratslayer
Wait. Is getting a tummy tuck that frowned upon? If so, why?
What is wrong with wanting to feel better about myself.
It’s definitely NOT for the rat. He’s a narcissist, he ain’t staying with me, i’ll be out when the next supply shows up and we all know that but i’ll be able to pick myself up easier if my belly isnt hanging low haha
By the way, I’ve had a breast augmentation & lipo of the flanks so i’ve been doing this stuff for years WAY before the rat so shew with that nonsense.
there is good women clinics .which u could go yourself.and book a horrible one to get better .the hotel will look after you meals to your room.were as he will book spy which u will pay more and he will stroke the life of you .Yes meet him but you will have more money in your purse.were you'll b paying for food each day and depending on him to cook.I'm never get a receipt .it will cost I more
 

PixelGhost0

Junior Rat Expert
I went and stayed for 2 weeks.
Tunisia was AMAZING!
I couldn’t even believe I was there
Rat picked me up from the airport and he looked just as hot in person as he does over the video cam.
Everything was fine actually. Nothing really made me think he’s faking this and if he is damn he’s good (& I know they are good actors)
…..who am i kidding? he’s totally faking this!
He treated me so amazing.
Did some romantic things.
Gave me a f*cking ring.
Told me how pretty i was.
How proud he was of me.
He 100% made me feel loved.
He was nice and that was a relief
BUT…….
I paid for EVERYTHING! (i knew i would have to though).
I gave him the money at the beginning of the trip so i didn’t look like a damn fool paying for everything. If i was a man OMG I’d be so humiliated that a woman was paying but whatever I let him pretend he was a good hard working man that could provide for his woman.
I didn’t pay much attention to him and his cell phone activity but i did notice he didn’t get calls or notifications very often at all and when he did it was his parents.
We went to his families house for dinner and left an hour later. They seemed nice.

We rented a car and HOLY **** that dude can NOT drive. He hit cars, cement posts, iron rails - you name it.
MAJOR TURN OFF. I NEED A MAN THAT CAN DRIVE

The sex was comical especially when he tried to (well ya know) I just laughed at him and said just stop, just come back up here you little b*tch because whatever the hell that was isn’t even worth faking.

He gave me a ring. I said yes but i didn’t want to say anything other than yes while i was there in his country. Today it’s in the bathroom drawer.
Its a thin silver ring (which surprised me because i thought it would definitely be gold) with “diamonds” (glass) around it. It’s very pretty but whatever. I do wonder how he paid for it. I’m sure it was as cheap as he is.

His phone activity was mostly his parents or brothers calling and him playing music off of his phone.
No notifications of any sort.
I didn’t even hear text message alerts.
Volume could’ve been down or airplane mode
on though.

He’s a narcissist a$$hole for sure tho.
We would go out and this dude flat out stares at women!
With me beside him
I can think of atleast 2 occasions where i just couldn’t believe what i was seeing.
I let it go the first time.
The 2nd time I said something to him about it.
When i got up to walk off pissed he followed me and i told him off. He said he wasn’t and he was just looking around. OKAY YA RIGHT BECAUSE I SAW HER LOOKING TOO.
Anyways, I didn’t know how hard it was to argue with a narcissist. I finally just said sorry thinking i was crazy and i just wanted it to end at that point.
I know that he is using me.
With that said I see tummy tucks are only $3,500 in Tunisia soooooo in February i’m going to Tunisia to get a tummy tuck and he is going to help me recover.
When i’m there i’m going to make notice of his phone, ask to look at his phone and his reaction alone to that request will tell me everything, i’m asking questions and i’m snooping thru his stuff, When he looks at other women i’ll get up and leave him again sitting there alone and embarrassed.
yall i just want this tummy tuck and someone that can speak arabic to help me out and that would be him but I’m telling ya, i am struggling hard to pretend like i’m happy with him.
I can’t even smile on facetime anymore so how do they fake it for so long cause i’m wondering if i’m gonna be able to fake him out until feb.
When i’m home from this surgery, calling this guy out on everything and then i’m gonna tell him how he got played too because i was just pretending to like him so i could get a Tummy Tuck with someone familiar with Tunisia.
No regrets

There’s my update. I wish so bad i could give a name and know that it wouldn’t get back to him.
And for the love god i’m sick of sending him pics of me. I just ignore the request now.
this sounds exactly like the typical hot dude in tunisia, ive seen so many of them in my school, at some point you can just spot them instantly
and about the tummy tuck, although i cant offer a place for you to stay since i still live with my family, if you only need a translator of sort, i hope i can be of service, you might not trust me and thats understandable, but i think it would be better than having to put up with his malarkey (to keep my language clean xD)
but good luck with the situation either way
 

PixelGhost0

Junior Rat Expert
I went and stayed for 2 weeks.
Tunisia was AMAZING!
I couldn’t even believe I was there
Rat picked me up from the airport and he looked just as hot in person as he does over the video cam.
Everything was fine actually. Nothing really made me think he’s faking this and if he is damn he’s good (& I know they are good actors)
…..who am i kidding? he’s totally faking this!
He treated me so amazing.
Did some romantic things.
Gave me a f*cking ring.
Told me how pretty i was.
How proud he was of me.
He 100% made me feel loved.
He was nice and that was a relief
BUT…….
I paid for EVERYTHING! (i knew i would have to though).
I gave him the money at the beginning of the trip so i didn’t look like a damn fool paying for everything. If i was a man OMG I’d be so humiliated that a woman was paying but whatever I let him pretend he was a good hard working man that could provide for his woman.
I didn’t pay much attention to him and his cell phone activity but i did notice he didn’t get calls or notifications very often at all and when he did it was his parents.
We went to his families house for dinner and left an hour later. They seemed nice.

We rented a car and HOLY **** that dude can NOT drive. He hit cars, cement posts, iron rails - you name it.
MAJOR TURN OFF. I NEED A MAN THAT CAN DRIVE

The sex was comical especially when he tried to (well ya know) I just laughed at him and said just stop, just come back up here you little b*tch because whatever the hell that was isn’t even worth faking.

He gave me a ring. I said yes but i didn’t want to say anything other than yes while i was there in his country. Today it’s in the bathroom drawer.
Its a thin silver ring (which surprised me because i thought it would definitely be gold) with “diamonds” (glass) around it. It’s very pretty but whatever. I do wonder how he paid for it. I’m sure it was as cheap as he is.

His phone activity was mostly his parents or brothers calling and him playing music off of his phone.
No notifications of any sort.
I didn’t even hear text message alerts.
Volume could’ve been down or airplane mode
on though.

He’s a narcissist a$$hole for sure tho.
We would go out and this dude flat out stares at women!
With me beside him
I can think of atleast 2 occasions where i just couldn’t believe what i was seeing.
I let it go the first time.
The 2nd time I said something to him about it.
When i got up to walk off pissed he followed me and i told him off. He said he wasn’t and he was just looking around. OKAY YA RIGHT BECAUSE I SAW HER LOOKING TOO.
Anyways, I didn’t know how hard it was to argue with a narcissist. I finally just said sorry thinking i was crazy and i just wanted it to end at that point.
I know that he is using me.
With that said I see tummy tucks are only $3,500 in Tunisia soooooo in February i’m going to Tunisia to get a tummy tuck and he is going to help me recover.
When i’m there i’m going to make notice of his phone, ask to look at his phone and his reaction alone to that request will tell me everything, i’m asking questions and i’m snooping thru his stuff, When he looks at other women i’ll get up and leave him again sitting there alone and embarrassed.
yall i just want this tummy tuck and someone that can speak arabic to help me out and that would be him but I’m telling ya, i am struggling hard to pretend like i’m happy with him.
I can’t even smile on facetime anymore so how do they fake it for so long cause i’m wondering if i’m gonna be able to fake him out until feb.
When i’m home from this surgery, calling this guy out on everything and then i’m gonna tell him how he got played too because i was just pretending to like him so i could get a Tummy Tuck with someone familiar with Tunisia.
No regrets

There’s my update. I wish so bad i could give a name and know that it wouldn’t get back to him.
And for the love god i’m sick of sending him pics of me. I just ignore the request now.
also about the "performance" issues, tho i cant say for certain (as there are many factors involved) but i de believe there is a sizeable chunk of men in tunisia who cant perform well, and i think its because 1 we had (basically) no formal sexual education (only looked at in the last year of highschool and were taught nothing but the anatomy and general biology) and 2 sex is a very taboo subject so in most cases guys only learn from porn or from bro talk, both of which are extremely unhelpful. so you can expect the lack of performance as the norm for the most part here
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
this sounds exactly like the typical hot dude in tunisia, ive seen so many of them in my school, at some point you can just spot them instantly
and about the tummy tuck, although i cant offer a place for you to stay since i still live with my family, if you only need a translator of sort, i hope i can be of service, you might not trust me and thats understandable, but i think it would be better than having to put up with his malarkey (to keep my language clean xD)
but good luck with the situation either way
How nice of you:)
 

Yvonne

Moderator
Staff member
thank you bery much :D, i witnessed far too many times how terrible tunisian men (and lets be real, men in general) can bo, so i try to be the change i want to see
You say your a bi dude so I guess your a man. Any if your friends involved with foreign ladies, if you dont want to share it then you don't need to but you can expect we are suspicious about your intention in being here. There where tunisian men in the past who joined the forum and where rats.
Yvonne x
 

PixelGhost0

Junior Rat Expert
You say your a bi dude so I guess your a man. Any if your friends involved with foreign ladies, if you dont want to share it then you don't need to but you can expect we are suspicious about your intention in being here. There where tunisian men in the past who joined the forum and where rats.
Yvonne x
i am indeed a man, but no, none of my friends have been involved with foreign ladies, and FYI my entourage is mostly women, and the neighborhood i spend my days in is very progressive and unwelcoming of that kind of behavior, but your suspicion is definitely understandable and i hope i can dispel it one day
 
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PixelGhost0

Junior Rat Expert
And we thank you for that;) actually if she decides to do this surgery there she would be better off renting a place..like she will be doing anyway and letting you help her out;)
even tho its more expensive, i highly reccomend she get a hotel room instead, because while i know theyre rat infestations at this point, i did hear a few horror stories about renting out rooms in tunis, and the renters are more likely to up the price when they hear shes a foreigner since the value of our currency is so low that the price they give her would seem logical while in actuality being highly inflated
 

Yvonne

Moderator
Staff member
even tho its more expensive, i highly reccomend she get a hotel room instead, because while i know theyre rat infestations at this point, i did hear a few horror stories about renting out rooms in tunis, and the renters are more likely to up the price when they hear shes a foreigner since the value of our currency is so low that the price they give her would seem logical while in actuality being highly inflated
She would be better of in a private clinic in another county as hospitals in Tunisia aren't the cleanest or safest.
Renting an appartement there is not recommended as these rats ask more money from the woman or the rats get a commission from the renter. And it's illegal to live unmarried with a tunisian.

Yvonne x
 

PixelGhost0

Junior Rat Expert
She would be better of in a private clinic in another county as hospitals in Tunisia aren't the cleanest or safest.
Renting an appartement there is not recommended as these rats ask more money from the woman or the rats get a commission from the renter. And it's illegal to live unmarried with a tunisian.

Yvonne x
thats exactly what i said about the renting, but i do have some faith in our clinics (especially since my father is a doctor and i am privvy to more knowledge about our systems than most), the reason i dont trust hospitals as much (and the reason theyre not the cleanest or safest) is the extreme lack of funding, but i dont think yall would like to see me rant about how terrible our political situation is
 

Aisha1

Major Ratslayer
i am indeed a man, but no, none of my friends have been involved with foreign ladies, and FYI my entourage is mostly women, and the neighborhood i spend my days in is very progressive and unwelcoming of that kind of behavior, but your suspicion is definitely understandable and i hope i can dispel it one day
This is so believe really, I see gay and bi men is Sousse every time we go to Dinner/ concert night at one of the places near beach. And I pick up on details … they guys I see can sing every word of every cardi b song that she plays… I speak very good and I can’t do that… hhh
 

PixelGhost0

Junior Rat Expert
This is so believe really, I see gay and bi men is Sousse every time we go to Dinner/ concert night at one of the places near beach. And I pick up on details … they guys I see can sing every word of every cardi b song that she plays… I speak very good and I can’t do that… hhh
yeah the LGBT movement is actually a lot bigger than some might realize in tunisia. even in sfax, one of the most conservative/ religiously strict states in tunisia still has a relatively big number of grindr users.
 
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