So his cousin has a western wife, does she live with him in Tunisia or does she visit him a few times? How does she cope with it?
That responsibility goes both ways isn't it? Isn't it the responsibility of the family from the rat to inform the woman she is being scammed?
It certainly is but the rat will never take responsibilities for nothing they are ready to put the blame on anyone apart from them selves
I love this one butterflies ur so right!!!
Really ur prepared to live there give everything up to be with him in Tunisia
Are you comparing a rat with a cliff? Lol
I would stop for a cliff because I know what it means but love rats is something else isn't it @MrKirby?
Let's talk real stuff @MrKirby. Love rats send many requests to women all over the world. Those who respond are their potential next victim. Not all women are aware of love rats and I know we should think twice when such a young man pretends to be interested in us
From the first texts these rats send to women it's pre meditated to be a scam.
Untill a man or a woman was involved with a love rat you simply don't know how it feels to be scammed this way.
We heard it all before, it's our own fault, we are stupid to believe it all, think before you go any further with this.......
It's plane and simple women are NOT to blame. NEVER.
She visit there and they have been together many years. Looks they are happy together. It's always big change in your life, if you move other country and other culture. It's really not easy but it can be big and rich experience also. There live other ladies from my country with them husbands too. And if his cousins wife will move too in future, we can support each others. This all is only thinkings and plannings just now. It's possible that I can live there part of year and other part in my country.
It's indeed a place to raise awareness and we are all here to help women who seek advice.
I'm not missing the point.... I think (please explain where I go wrong) language difference maybe?
It can be a good experience but it can all go wrong to. It's something to plan very carefully and don't burn all you bridges with your country. Knowing that another woman is there is comfortable for you to know so that you can have a friend to turn to.
@Butterflies ,I'm not missing the point.... I think (please explain where I go wrong) language difference maybe?
There are red flags in a relationship with a tunisian man from the start and this is our point of discussion here because rats are masters in manipulation, they are so convincing that the woman believes it all . I don't wish it on anyone to be brainwashed by a rat it really is something special to experience it.
If butterflies is missing the point how can she be 100% right????
Look I know many western women thats been married many many years snd the wife is still visiting with many gifts still paying for everything And it seems the longer u are together the more exepemdive the gifts become as the rats then ask for more!
Yessss
It is very difficult. Hopefully, it works out for you but just remember what the little birdie tells you to remember. Just protect yourself at all costs. And don’t ever be ashamed to ask for help no matter how bad or how alone he might or might not make you feel. Xoxo
I think if I had known for sure how they work I wouldn’t have started talking to him! And I know for a fact I will never ever have an online relationship much less with someone international!!! However his brother is HORRID! I can’t understand why anyone would go back to him knowing the HELL THEY WILL BE PUT THRU but it happens ..call it fault , trauma bond I have no clue don’t want to either
All I have to say it was not my fault!!!!! HIS but thank goodness he didn’t get much from me!! And if he had treated me badly and hit me it would’ve been his last hitAre you comparing a rat with a cliff? Lol
I would stop for a cliff because I know what it means but love rats is something else isn't it @MrKirby?
Let's talk real stuff @MrKirby. Love rats send many requests to women all over the world. Those who respond are their potential next victim. Not all women are aware of love rats and I know we should think twice when such a young man pretends to be interested in us
From the first texts these rats send to women it's pre meditated to be a scam.
Untill a man or a woman was involved with a love rat you simply don't know how it feels to be scammed this way.
We heard it all before, it's our own fault, we are stupid to believe it all, think before you go any further with this.......
It's plane and simple women are NOT to blame. NEVER.
They are full blown liars will act like your a queen when ur there
They need to read the Quran again because I think they think the more lies they tell gets them to paradise!
The house things is crazy. Seriously, it is sadly canning house these RATs continue with these lies knowing the western would have to fight really hard to probably no effort to get what was hers if she invested in Tunisia. I am so sorry but I do not trust them at all. The horror…I’ve cried many days and nights and man I am so happy to finally be out of that situation although it is far from over. The fight is still on and I know that RAT has continued with his lies! Does anyone know any trustworthy lawyers in Tunisia?
@ScaredStraight2021 there are threads here at the forum where you can find a trusted lawyer and his info.
It is acceptable to lie to infidels the same way it is ok to steal from someone who is richer than you lol some ‘Muslims’ told me so, go figure why the scam has fine days ahead. You cannot ever reason these people. It is a combinaison of hypocritical Islam and the survival of the fittest/richest African mentality.
There is a documentary I watched about a french woman being scammed the same way, her rats’ family took the house she bought in Tunisia and lived there for many years. She could never get rid of them, the police wasn’t helping and it took years for the legal procedure to evict them. They were all protecting each other.
Maybe aisha dose know one or two that are good but what iv heard some are as bad as the rats its all money money money so be careful when choosing which to use
That's the mentality and this proves without a doubt Tunisian families are behind the rat 100 %
Yes,bcz the only thing they read about is at internet to have an update about which country its easy to escape to,and to live in. They know all about this
Thank you. I will look into it. I’m just so nervous because once you have been betrayed in such a devilish way it is almost so hard not to look at them all in the same light. I’m nowhere near prejudice it is just hard to trust when the betrayal is so bad!
Yep I know a lady in the same situation! It’s like squatter’s they just stay regardless..here in the US I think the police would physically remove them, I would hope so anyway
