What was your "weakness" when you were hooked by a rat?

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  1. Amira

    Amira Well-Known Member

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    My weakness is that I am too naive about men, but my age has made me more skeptical, thank you for it. We women are kind enough to accept everything they see on a long way because their field is women
     
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    Ive been single for a very long time and when I met a "barman" at a hotel is sousse recently lost all my senses !!! I enjoyed the attention way too much having lost 4 stone in weight and feeling good about myself in the sun. He has kept in touch since I got home 3 weeks ago and hasn't asked me for anything. .. yet ! It all seemed to be about sex and still is which suited me but now I'm thinking about him all the time and it's pissing me off! . He admits he has many women on the go. Please tell me to drop this guy and find some decent guy at home in the UK. I thought I was a sensible woman up until now! P.s. this website has been brilliant reading
     
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    drop him and find someone here.. i had lost a load of weight when i was hooked by my rat.. dont let ur weight loss go to your head..remember.. men are very shallow creatures xxx
     
  4. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Hi Farango and welcome :) "He admits he has many women on the go" What's the name of this male prostitute? Dump him
     
  5. Farango

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    Hi, i don't want to mention names just in case the rat is looking on here but it was marhaba beach hotel. I've text him today saying I don't want anymore contact and he acts all upset about it ! These rats are a phenomenon that I've never encountered before, I'm 40 and I've never gone in holiday and behaved like this before ! He says sex is easy for him at the hotel, I feel like a bloody idiot now x
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Better get checkt for STD ;)
     
  7. Farango

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    no dont feel that way but he has told u he has lots of women... so just move on to someone who is single x preferably from ur own country and release a big sigh of relief that u found this site before ur life gets smashed to piecee x
     
  9. Farango

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    Thank you ... you are so right ! Low esteem has got me here and it's time to sort it out and you girls on this site are really helping ...
     
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    a lady with low self esteem is a rats ideal victim x
     
  11. Amira

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    It's not your fault and yes they have women every day but I have trouble understanding the system in Tunisia because it's a Muslim country and, according to what I've heard, it's not allowed to interact with their tourists there and that their employees can lose the job and no I would not have wagered in any distance they are not honest
     
  12. Farango

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    Just send me a link the Lionel Ritchie hello !!! Puke and I've seen this is classic rat behaviour! !
     
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  14. Farango

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    I don't come across that way but maybe he could see it !! Big rat !!
     
  15. Amira

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    Do not go into any distances it's tedious and expensive too insecure because of your way of life
     
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    yes they can x
     
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    send him this and then block him x

     
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    I can't see it ! Plug in not supported
     
  20. beznessbitch

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    u can search on youtube for a goodbye song!!
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Well done Farango! You saved yourself from a big headache, they can go from sweet to psycho in 2 seconds. The moment they feel you are getting out of reel they start manipulation ( if they have something to blackmail you they won’t doubt) but even if everything looks like honey it would always be to his advantage, asking for gifts or not cash at the moment but planning future with you and ofcourse the man would become your baby.a lot of duties come with these rats. Better to have a healthy relationship with a nice man. Sending hugs. Xx
     
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    They are very perceptive. My rat could read me better than anyone.
     
  23. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    True. My rat knew what to say to hurt me the most, naturally at the beginning he knew what to say to make me fall for him too. They are well trained.
     
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    Thanks k you for your words. He does have some pics of me but he can blackmail me all he wants.. I wasn't doing anything wrong , just having a bit of adult fun and that's where I wanted it to end. !! Will keep you posted xx
     

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